Welcome to another episode of our podcast titled, How to train children the way they should go. Today, I will be discussing a Bible verse that has been quoted and referenced by parents and educators for centuries.
The Bible verse we will be exploring is Proverbs 22:6, which says, “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.”
This verse speaks to the importance of teaching children values and morals from an early age. But what does it really mean to “train up a child”?
So, let’s start with the first part of the verse, “Train up a child in the way he should go.” This means that parents should provide a solid foundation for their children by teaching them values, morals, and skills that they will need to navigate the world.
This means setting boundaries, communicating effectively, and modeling positive behavior. It also means giving children opportunities to explore their interests and passions, while encouraging them to take responsibility for their actions and decisions.
How do I suggest you go about teaching these things to your children?
It certainly can be a lot of work, but it’s also incredibly rewarding. The best way to teach children is through modeling. Parents should strive to be good role models for their children by demonstrating the behaviors and attitudes they want their children to adopt.
For example, if you want your child to be respectful, you should model respect for others. If you want your child to be responsible, you should model responsibility by following through on your commitments.
But what about the second part of the verse, “and when he is old he will not depart from it”? Some people believe this means that if parents do their job correctly, their child will never stray from the values they were taught.
Is this true? No, I don’t believe this is true. Children are individuals, and everyone goes through their own struggles and challenges in life.
However, I do believe that if parents provide a strong foundation for their children, it will make it more likely that they will be able to navigate the challenges of life and make positive choices.
Ultimately, the choices children make as adults are up to them, but the values and morals they were taught as children can help guide them in the right direction, especially with rising crimes and attacks on family.
It’s not about controlling the outcome, but rather providing a solid foundation. Parents can’t control everything, but they can provide a strong foundation that will help their children thrive and make good choices.
It’s important to remember that children are their own individuals, and they will make their own decisions as they grow up.
What the verse is saying is that if parents provide a strong foundation for their children, it will be easier for them to make good decisions and live a fulfilling life as they get older.
The values and morals they were taught will always be a part of them, but they may still make mistakes and have to learn from them. It’s not about controlling the child’s decisions, but setting them up for success.
We can’t control our children’s lives, but we can give them the tools they need to make good decisions and live a fulfilling life. That’s what “training up a child in the way he should go” means.
But what about parents who didn’t have a strong foundation themselves? How can they still provide that for their children? The first step is recognizing that there may be areas where they need to work on themselves.
It’s never too late to start developing positive values and behaviors. And while it may be more challenging to teach children something that wasn’t modeled for them, it’s still important to try.
There are many resources available, such as the Bible, religious books and classes on the Torah and the Tanakh, and support groups, that can help parents learn and grow.
In conclusion, would I say that Proverbs 22:6 is a valuable reminder for parents? Absolutely! It’s a reminder that parenting is not just about providing for our children’s physical needs, but also their emotional and spiritual needs!
We need to invest time and energy into teaching them values, morals, and skills that will serve them for the rest of their lives. It’s a big job, but it’s one of the most important things you can do as parents.
My final thought would be to focus on the process, rather than the outcome. Parenting is a journey, and it’s important to take it one step at a time. I hope this podcast helps and inspires you to raise good children.
Remember that it’s okay to make mistakes, and that children are resilient. Focus on providing a loving and supportive environment, and trust that the values and morals you teach your children will guide them in the right direction.
Before I go, let me pray this prayer for you all: May Yahweh bless you and keep you; may Yahweh make His face to shine upon you and be gracious to you; and may Yahweh lift up His countenance upon you and give you peace. Praying this thru Messiah Yahshua. Halleluyah! Amen.
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2 replies on “How to Train Children the Way They Should Go”
I’ve always said children learn from what the see others do. We need to teach then while they are young, teach them right from wrong and pray that they grow up and remember what they were taught.
I really appreciate the acknowledgment that children are individuals who will ultimately make their own choices while demonstrating how parents can help their kids navigate the world through learned values.